Teen Dating

I've been seeing lately alot about the whole Miley Cyrus dating this 20 year old and correct me if i'm wrong but she is 16 right? Don't let the bright lights and television fool you she's 16. I have a problem with their relationship as a parent. I wouldn't and don't want my daughter looking at anyone older than 15 and my main reason is because of the differences in interest!

Granted, Miley could have a very good head on her shoulders and could be one who has the will power of a nun but on the other hand she could not .. why do her parents feel that their union is OK? I was 16 once and I dated older but I didn't know any better, all I knew was what my body was telling me I didn't have much guidance by way of my parents, they were there but my mom was anti talk about sex and my dad just didn't bother for whatever reason. So I was left to make those decisions on my own. As a parent now and seeing what a mistake I made I feel some kinda way about this. I had my daughter when I was fresh out of HS I didn't have a life until I got older and there was a lot that I regret about that whole situation but my daughter is not one of them! I just feel as a parent we should at least explain to our children what it is they are getting into, what they do with that information is on them but we did our part. I would have a HUGE problem with my daughter seeing a 20 year old .. especially if I know about it.

Now if I don't know .. hell what can I do, but Miley's shit is public dude is all in the press now and I just get sickened by the whole ok Miley sure you can go out with a 20 year old situation. At 20 I think that a man has different agendas and interests than a 16 year old would. Granted at 16 a young lady is physically ready and fully capable of having sex. But that doesn't mean I want to cosign the damn deal .. I just can't get over this .. I am realistic as well and realize that a lot of shit like this might happen unbeknownst to me .. this is life. However, like I said, if I can talk her into keeping her legs closed or at least sharing that moment with someone her age I will talk blue in the face at least I did my part as a caring parent!

Another thing that kills me is the fact that her family and television make her out to be so innocent .. yet she's posing on line and in private like this:

This does not look so innocent to me but i'm just saying!

Another issue I have is this new thing with the teen dating abuse .. wtf? Young in love and getting hit or beat up by some dude? I don't get it .. now everyone made a big deal of the Rihanna situation but that's not the first time I heard this but it's really sad that teenagers get into this kind situation when they have so much more to look forward to. Now i've never been in this type of situation but I can guarantee that as a teenager it wouldn't go down like that .. I was a nut kicking/hitting fool, I doubt it would occur often if at all after a few of those!

Speak on it!

Pigs Eat Shit

My husband asked me last night if I knew why Muslims don't eat pork? My response was wrong but I really never knew .. and he told me it's because pigs eat shit, there own shit to be exact .. I don't know why but I thought this was funny as hell. I don't think the reason is funny but the whole thought of a pig eating shit was hysterical to me.

So in my mind after our discussion I had images in my head of pigs eating thier slop, food or whatever and the random piece of shit just laying there one minute and gone the next. I don't know why but that whole picture is comical .. yeah it's nasty but I like pork .. I dont' LOVVVVEEE pork, nor do I eat it often shit as a matter of fact I hardly partaketh in the swine but my family grew up eating pork so I do occassionally!

Anywho .. that being said I can honestly say i've never heard anything of the sort but I don't know everything .. I happen to think pigs are really cute here are some facts about pigs http://www.veganpeace.com/animal_facts/Pigs.htm I found them interesting ..

But umm yeah back to this shit eating thing .. ctfu do you really think they do and if so do you really think the shit contaminated all of their body parts .. specifically the parts we usually eat? I mean my theory is this, once the heat touches the food most germs are killed anyway. And if a pig eats it shit then it's pretty much eating the waste of the food they ate which means what .. WTF knows .. I just thought I would put that out there .. lol .. I do recall reading in the above post however that on top of being very smart pigs are clean .. and just so darn cute .. well the little ones that you can hold and bottle feed .. after that I only want to see them from a distance .. lol ..

Ok that's it .. what are you're thoughts .. speak on it .. lol

Sidebar .. I regret to say that I have not had my bbq pork ribs yet this year .. lol I feel kinda bad for craving ribs all of a sudden .. *oink*

The Prom

OK, i'm sick of getting these disgusting ass pics of prom pics from tacky ass kids that for lack of a better term have no damn sense, or style for that matter.

Ok so when do babies go to proms .. I mean ok you got the pass to be pregnant in high school obviously .. now your proud of it and bringing the baby with you? I guess that kids mother was like fuck that I didn't make the baby so you take him/her with you .. lol I hear that hot shit .. now they all in the prom and shit with tacky matching outfits .. smh what is this world coming too?


What the fuck was she thinking .. this rainbow coalition shit is getting way outta control! This chick looks like she's about to take flight .. don't get me wrong i'm glad she's not half naked but the outfit or whatever you call it is a bit extra!

What mother in their right mind lets their daughter go out like this ... And wtf is up with the bikini dresses??? Did I miss the memo, cause when I went to prom every one was fully clothed and covered, now I understand that times are changing but this is ridiculous. Now it's ok to wear capes with the dresses? Really did I miss the memo .. lol?

These chicks and their dates are ridiculous. Now it's cool to dress in loud ass dresses that make no sense and quite honestly look ridiculous and borderline skanky! Is there some sort of tacky prom dress/suit spot where they live?

I have to believe that the parents are buying these dresses cause i'm sure that all of these kids don't have their own income. And if they do and this is how they spend their money lord help us all .. lol ..

The Most Slept On Artist - Joe Thomas

I have been a fan of Joe's since the first song I ever heard, at the time I think it was "All the Things Your Man Won't Do" .. ever since I heard his sexy smooth voice in my discman .. yeah that's how long ago .. i've been hooked! Since then I've brought all of Joe's albums and have him loaded on my Ipod now .. lol

So I just wanted to take this time and show Joe some love .. I love this man, his voice is so smooth and just wonderful to listen to. which I can from beginning to end of any of his albums .. especially Joe Thomas: New Man! I love it .. it is the best work ever and i'm not understanding why he doesn't get promoted like some of the other nonsense on the radio!

Wtf is Birthday Sex??? I want sex all the damn time you dumb ass not just on my bday! And wth is Falsetto .. have you seen that boy come on .. i've heard alot of guys say a lot of things but really my husband is the only one i've ever been with to make me scream anything near that! My point here is that I love to listen to a love song that doesn't emphasis explicitely what a man wants to do! Joe gives me good listening in a subtle way that's always good to listen to!

I'm not saying there aren't other good artists out now, most of them are not as good and the others get promoted and right now i'm talking about JOE THOMAS .. ladies .. gents .. listen to this man .. he's the truth .. i'm not just a fan i'ma FAN .. lol .. I love to hear him sing and wish I didn't have to listen to my Ipod or CD's just to hear him but you know what, if that's what it takes then i'm there!

OK, so far on his new album I love all the songs but my absolute favorites are:

1. Man In Your Life


2. E.R. (Emergency Room)


3. By Any Means


4. We Need to Roll


5. Start Over Again


6. I Won't Let Him Hurt You


7. Sorry


8. Why Just Be Friends


9. and all the snippets (4 of them)

Pretty much the album is fire .. how often will you buy a CD and you like that many songs? That's about 13 out of 16 .. need I say more lol? I just love this man. I wanted to make sure I took the time to bring some light to my favorite male artist since no one else has .. check out some of his tracks below.

Snippets:



By Any Means:


We Need to Roll:


E.R.:


Start Over Again:


Man In Your Life:


Ok I think you get the point .. read more on Joe's new album on the r&B blog site .. http://www.rnbmusicblog.com/joejoe-thomasnew-man-review/ or you can check him out on Myspace .. if you're not into the internet buy the damn album, it will be money well spent!

Internet Thugs .. lol

I'm sitting here ctfu @ the internet, hackers and the celebrities that get hacked .. apparently yet another freaky ass celeb got caught out there being human .. lol .. by human I don't mean I condone her topless pics but it's what some people do, unfortunately they get caught as well, it's a part of the act itself .. lol!

So Cassie has some pics on her personal computer that someone hacked into and leaked onto the net .. Miss Info has shared her opinion and pics here http://poprl.com/11M6 but i'm just saying .. what's the big deal! I know some teens that have got caught out there like that .. and again I say it's not cool but it is what it is. I mean she's a good looking girl, she felt sexy she took a pic for Diddy or whatever .. who the fuck cares .. I'll even go as far to say it's a good look for her right now, she might be more successful modeling (raunchy or not) cause her music career (if you can call it that) is not so hot right now!

But wait now everyones like "Oh Cassie, poor Cassie" WHY? No one told her to put the shit out there or take them in the first place. I do commend her for her very mature response to the whole incident (really) classic yeah what response .. I give her a cool point for that! I don't have beef or hate for the chick, it's unfortunate she has found herself in this situation, but like I said .. it's the shit that real people do errday .. deal with it. If you've seen one tittie you've seen them all. Shit if I were her I'd be glad that you caught me before I had the kids and got my sag on .. ctfu ... cause if some pics like that of me leaked i'd be feeling some kinda way like damn why didn't I hold them up? Or why didn't I lay to the side to give a better view .. ctfu .. ok i'm bugging but you know what I mean. It could have been worse .. get over yourselves stars ... you're human .. stop trying so hard to disassociate yourselves with the rest of the world!

Who Knew .. then again How Could You Not?

So Tyler Perry is amazing .. not too long ago I saw Marriage Counselor, Tyler's latest play .. awesome .. definitely good laughs there, as with the other plays I've seen. He's consistent his work usually brings out unknown talents. Now I have to admit I was not initially a fan of his show Tyler Perry's House of Pain. However, something caught my attention one day and I've been hooked ever since.

So first things first, I enjoy all of the characters however, the one that I liked least was Jazmine, her character can be a bit much at times. Don't get me wrong I think she has funny moments but lose so much of the attitude and i'm there. I say this to segway into the real reason I brought her up. So I read her bio on tbs.com and found out that she initially starred in Tyler Perry's Daddy's Little Girl. She actually starred in that with her sisters, funny at the time I did think they look alike .. lol. But so yeah, those are her sisters and they actually have a group, they're called 3mcclaingirls .. how cute. I checked them out and they sound pretty decent, and I wish them luck. Check them out ..





Another multi-talented actress from the same show is Demetria McKinney .. she plays Janine on the show .. I actually heard her sing a bit on the show and I have to say I always assume that most of Tyler's actors/actresses can sing .. it's just something about him, he has an eye for overall talent. Below is her single "Stay," not sure when this came out of when its coming out but it's cool.



I'm gonna pull this one out of the bag, remember I mentioned Marriage Counselor .. there's one actress who appeared in the play who sounds so much like Teena Marie .. this girl can sing .. Stephanie Ferrett plays the secretary to the lead character she was good .. lol I tell you the man can find some talent, I was there she was singing .. I heard it with my own two ears .. lol check her out ..



Guess that's it for now .. perhaps another time I can highlight the men they do have talent as well!

See what I mean Tyler will find the singers .. lol I'm glad they are expanding on their careers and getting out there trying new things, I dig that they play the guitar and really wish them continued success.

Facebook

I heard today from a good friend and reliable source that according the news employers are not looking through facebook to view what perspective employees are about. Now at first I did have real concern since I am hooked on facebook, however a few things occurred to me that hadn't when I first heard this.

1) Wouldn't whoever the employer is have to be your friend in order to see what you write and your daily entries and all that good (or bad) stuff? Basically I have determined that this may not be possible unless there is some employer facebook application that allows employers to have access to users accounts even without being a friend or approved by the employee .. interesting!

2) I don't post anything (ie., pictures, quotes, or sayings) that I wouldn't say personally or that I don't want people to know about. I mean so what if I did? I would consider that discrimination if I wasn't hired due to some questionable things I posted on my own personal account smh .. is there no end to what people would do to avoid dealing with people? Needless to say I will continue to do what I was doing, being me. If they don't like it, then I guess they shouldn't be trying to read it .. nosies .. lol

3) At what point did facebook become the determining factor for employers to choose or to basically snoop around someones personal thoughts? I personally think it's an invasion of ones privacy, not only that it has nothing to do with the job. At what point did facebook replace the resume and educational experience one has? And just because a person seems to be a bit outgoing or opinionated and even perhaps potty mouthed or just down right silly does not mean that they do not know how to act in a professional manner.

Now i'm addiced to facebook, I enjoy the fact that I can connect with old friends and new ones so I'll be on facebook .. no doubt! This is just my opinion .. and needless to say from now on I will be doing just what I've been doing on facebook.. ME! .. lol hate it or love it the silly me inside is same professional scholar you read about in the resume .. always remember there are two sides to every story, including mine.

School is Busting My ASS .. lol

Why is it that I get right to the door, one step away from my degree and all of a sudden the road blocks appear? Not any road blocks that can not be overcome or those that will keep me away from my degree but the ones that never appeared before when it was smooth sailing yet when i'm just near the finish line have arrived to discourage me .. lol the devil is a lie .. lol I WILL GRADUATE THIS DAMN SUMMER .. lol ..

I decided to go back for my Masters but days like this i'm thinking do I really want to be bothered .. of course I do .. I love overcoming obstacles. I will be the first of my mothers children to graduate from college, and get a Masters at that .. i'm excited about that. Not to shine any negative light on my siblings, because everything isn't for everyone, but going back to school is something I've wanted to do for me, to better myself and to hopefully advance career wise, but oh what a journey!

So to the bustin' my ass, i'm taking my electives now because i'm done with all of my core classes and I decided to take Western Civilization, knowing that history is so not my strong point. But I wanted to do something different and not so easy .. boy was I on target .. lol I jumped in feet first and I am really feeling it .. lol but it's a good feeling. Thus far i've received positive feed back from my Professor which is a blessing considering I am really struggling .. lol but I can do it .. lol. Anywho enough of my ramblings .. be back shortly with my nightmares of a teenage prom queen blog .. dedicated to my daughter stressing me out over her upcoming prom .. lol laterz