What Would You Do?

So I was in Quizzno’s and by the way this was my very first visit and I am so not feeling them .. all that hype for a little ass no meat sandwich .. any who!  I’m in there ordering that lame ass sandwich when I recognize a chick, well she recognizes me, we hug and exchange small talk you know the usual. Now here’s where it gets interesting, we’re in Montclair which is not too far from where we live and she’s in there with some dude.

I know this chick and her MAN and their baby, pretty little girl, the dude she is with is not her man. I wanted to come right out and ask but I’m not one to embarrass or point out the obvious so I say .. “you work up here now,”  that question of course was a segway into the next topic of where in the hell is your man and who is this dude you with .. but really I didn’t care it was just a bit awkward me knowing the both of them you know. So she kinda avoided the question, I laughed on the inside like damn bitches ain’t shit .. then I laughed again at me even thinking that but I did!

So I'm wondering what do you say to someone in that situation, or does it depend on how well you know the person, I mean if y’all not close like that and you just know them then does it matter? If you know them well or they’re family I'm sure it would be a different story. I wanna know your thoughts what would you do if you were me?

Double ♂♀ Standards

Can any man answer this question for me .. Why is it still possible for you to do dirt and it be ok but not ok for your lady or women period to do the same? I have never seen a more immature sex .. yes you men, you can dish it but you can’t take it! SMH I'm surprised that this is still the case on a variety of issues in many relationships.

So tell me what makes it ok for your dick to be carelessly inserted into any woman of your choosing at any time and not for my pussy to receive some attention from another man? You did it right? When you were getting yours it was all good right? But when I did it all hell broke loose and you grill me (hypothetically) about who it was and called me all kinds of whores, and bitches. Meanwhile your actions went unnoticed and no one sees you as being anything less than what you are .. a man!

I am so fed up of hearing women talk about some shit their man did and if he even had the thought of his woman out there it was cause for some heavy debate or even grounds for dismissal yet when it was him he begged for forgiveness and brushed it off as some meaningless fuck! Why is that? Why can’t a woman have a meaningless fuck and it be ok .. I mean besides lets keep it real there are plenty of woman that have managed to, in a classy way, have an affair and her man be none the wiser, all because HER MAN and his double standard having ass was out there doing the same shit .. out there whoring, skanking, fucking, screwing, being a bitch ass with some next chick .. yeah I said it ..

I’m tired of these no balls having lame ass men. And I feel sorry for the beautiful undeserving women who love them! Nothing worse than a man who won’t be a man and own up to is faults but quick to blame his woman .. you know the one who stood behind his bitch ass through thick and thin tolerating his bullshit for years on end just to be slapped in the face with some bullshit insecurities he’s having all cause he wanna fuck anything with a slit! SMH .. this has me so tight right now .. I can talk till i’m blue in the face and I still won’t understand this .. I mean I am not claiming that women are not at fault .. but I will say that at least women see things for what they are .. a man can be a whore just like a woman can .. believe that you nasty bastards!

Speak on it!

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Stupid / Funny / Loud Commercials

Commercials, we can’t avoid them. While on a walk home with my girlfriend we had a discussion about commercials that got me to thinking that might be an interesting topic .. lol .. so let me start with the obvious .. the stupid ones ..

 

Lately on the radio I've been hearing this commercial about a man who in a deep voice calls a store to advise them that he has their mannequin and that they can have it back if they pay him 1 million dollars. Now the idea itself is stupid, I admit I did laugh I did, it sounded funny but it was just stupid as hell I had to laugh .. lol but really the damn commercial is stupid and I hate that they put out these commercials trying to sell us something. Shit at least be funny, I often wonder who comes up with some of the ideas i’ve seen but then again .. I don’t really care I just wonder .. lol like the IO digital cable one .. you know the one .. “IO digital cable watch whatever you want whenever you’re able .. lol” my kids love that commercial me on the other hand see nothing amusing about them and what’s with all of their commercials having a Hispanic undertone .. I don’t get that .. freakin’ triple play .. I know they could have come up with something better than that!

 

Now there are some funny commercials, I had a whole discussion with my girlfriend about funny commercials and she dies laughing at this stupid baby commercial where the baby is singing “take these broken wings” for the life of me I don’t see what is so funny in that but i’ve never seen it so I guess I have to be there .. lol .. a coworker of mine dies laughing at the m&m commercial where the m&m’s realize they are not on a guest list but on a menu and the m&m is hauling ass down the conveyor belt to the register trying to get away .. now that’s funny when you think of it .. lol now there is a commercial that I crack up over .. the damn terminex commercial. I know, I know but tell me you don’t laugh at a big ass roach looking termite with a pizza at your door asking you to let him put it on the table .. lol I live .. that commercial is funny *to me .. lol*! All that to say there are some funny commercials out there .. lol

 

Now, the kind of commercial that I hate most is the kind that has entirely too much volume ..  you know the kind where the show you were watching was on say 15 (volume) but the commercial is on 30 and its always about the same shit .. as if to get ones attention .. those damn Extenze commercials .. shit its bad enough this shit is on during the middle of the afternoon but really does the shit have to be so loud .. i’m sure no one is buying that shit anyway .. hello VIAGRA has been out for quite some time and they don’t need no loud ass commercials for promotion either .. lol …

 

I’m just sayin’!

JD’s Tat

I happened upon this pic while on the web and thought to myself after lol .. wtf .. I mean really I love my husband but I would never do this ..

 

What does it mean? I wanna know what he was thinking before he got this. What thoughts was he having .. like maybe he thought .. damn I love Janet how can I show her how dedicated I am to her and our relationship without marrying her? Or maybe he was high and though .. oh shit how cool would it be to get Janet tattoed to my side .. ha ha snort giggle fart pass out .. lol. Whatever it was he must’ve had a convincing argument cause he went with it. This is what it looks like up close ..

I’m not sure I'm with the spiritual theme behind this and I can’t for the life of me understand the meaning behind this. Perhaps the spiritual epithet means something to them that I can’t won’t understand so I'll let them have that .. but I want to know y0ur thoughts. 

To what extent do you profess your love to your mate .. could you do something like this?